A Good Reminder through Muddy Waters

Yesterday was one of those days that I thought would never end. On both ends of the day, I had to talk two of my kids through issues that left me feeling drained. I tend to absorb other people's emotions and that's never a good feeling when dealing with their mess. I will be brutally honest here and admit I generally have a difficult time keeping a lid on my emotions during these times.

This morning as I sat on my deck having my time with the Lord, I felt sweet peace wash back over me. These verses were a good reminder to me. The earth is in His hands so I have no need for anxiety. He has my children in His hands too and is looking out for them. He is using all these circumstances in their lives to shape and mold them into the men and women He wants them to be.

The one thing that is certain is that as I walk these muddy waters with adult children, it is keeping me on my knees and seeking the Lord for wisdom. I've discovered something else too. I've spoken with many other men and women who are in the same boat. Transitioning from children and teens into adulthood is a rocky road for both the child and the parent. It's one that can have a lot of friction and stress at times, and there are moments when they choose to not follow your advice and mess up. But there are also those wonderful moments when you see your child beginning to mature and make wise decisions without any help from you at all! 

It's an amazing thing!