Learning to Hold my Plans Loosely

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I've spent the past two days in the kitchen, preparing family favorites for tomorrow's feast. I was looking forward to having my daughter and son-in-law here, as well as my father-in-law. A lake effect storm has changed all those plans. We are not going to be able to pick up my father-in-law who lives an hour away and my daughter and her husband changed their plans so they wouldn't have to drive in the height of the storm. They are headed further south to his parent's house instead.

I'm surprisingly okay with all of this. Of course, I'm disappointed, but I'm learning to hold my plans loosely. I put two of the pies in the freezer and will have a less hectic day tomorrow. 

In the past, I would have really had a hard time with all of this and would have felt quite dejected. However, there is nothing that can be done about it and I can spend tomorrow being sad about who isn't there and make the day miserable, or I can pivot and enjoy a quieter holiday.

I choose to pivot. I've spent the month talking about how to be thankful and I think holding onto our plans with a loose hand helps tremendously. Things happen that are beyond our control. We can either throw a fit or choose to adjust and still be thankful. 

Thanksgiving will be different, but it's still a day to give thanks. I choose gratitude. 

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